What is a friend?
Someone who is more than an acquaintance.
A friend is beyond anyone or the thought you have about that particular being.
It's beyond any other relationship which you have in your life. It’s the only relationship which you create and explore by yourself. It's not the one which you have by default - by birth. It’s the relationship which you make with a person by your own understanding but not with someone else's. And as it says the best way to explore the life and yourself is only by making decisions and understanding things in your own ways. And by the way, it's important to experience things on your own... it's important to 'create' experiences on your own.
A friend is someone who maybe not an important part of your life but helps you in understanding the priorities of those important parts. He/she is someone who may not be very interested in what you are saying but listen to you every time you need a listener.
In fact, we never share things to a friend so that he/she can help us in solving issues. Well, that is something which we always want to do in our own ways, though we always have a misconception that talking to a friend is a best way to solve a problem. But the fact is we share things because sometimes you just need a good listener; someone who will listen to you, not to judge and throw a solution on your face but to balance the stability. We share because there are few things which cannot be share with just anyone but are meant for some special people who, after getting back home, may forget what you said or shared but give the full attention whenever with you.
Yeah, sometimes they screw you too but it’s good to be screwed up. And getting screwed up is the best way to tighten up your nuts. So what if your friend screwed you up, you'll have your chance to return the same to him/her because this relationship is beyond expectations and demands. It’s beyond the hierarchy which you always need to maintain with any other relationships. To share your thoughts, you don't need to filter yourself and a limit because this relationship has no limits but just genuineness.
So respect them or disrespect them, they don't really care about you saying frustratingly 'LEAVE ME ALONE' but they care to be with you at any cost whether you like it or not.
Well it’s that every single person with whom you spend even an hour, a moment or an entire life. It can be your mother, your father, a brother. It can be someone with whom you prefer to drink all the time. It can be your roomy who loves wearing your clothes no matter you like it or not and always ready to hold your empty pocket. It can be someone who envies you every time you move above him/her in personal or professional life and motivates you whether you want to be or not. It can be someone who gives up a girl for you and even screws you up for a girl. It can someone who very well know how to embarrass you and even know how to rescue you from a embarrassing moment. It can be someone who is far away from you but always be there whenever you want him/her or not. It can be even you yourself!
So I will not ask you to respect them because these morons literally don't want your respect or even attention but just a name about which they can proudly say - Hell! This bugger is a good friend of mine.
Friendship is not about F.R.I.E.N.D.S or Zindagi Naa Milegi Dobara. It’s just about having chai at the corner and damning on each other's mistakes.
